This Is How FIDA Helped Me Get Child Support

 *FIDA Kenya - "Federación Internacional dé Abogadas" which translates to "International Federation of Women Lawyers"

It is the premier women's rights organization in Kenya which for over 32 years has offered free legal aid to over 320,000 women and their children. The matters range from custody and maintenance, matrimonial disputes, discrimination in employment, participation in public positions and sexual violence. (Source: Google.com)

 I got pregnant with this man. It was a real accident, you know things back firing. A long the way, the guy told me outright to get a life when I asked him to support. He knew I loved him so much and his mind had told him he could do or say anything and I wouldn't do a thing so as to keep him. I didn't quarrel with him. I went quietly to FIDA and the day he received that call of summon he froze. He called me evil. He said that I lied I loved him. I still did love him but a third human was on the way and I had to make a very wise choice.

He had thought that my love for him was so much I couldn't take any actions. Yes it was so much but not stupid enough to allow him to treat me like a 3rd class human.

I told him going the legal way was the best thing for all of us to avoid unnecessary tussles. He rose up to the occasion and embraced his responsibilities.

I wish women would make use of FIDA. FIDA doesn't seek to bring down men. In fact, the lawyers told me they would reconcile us so as to have a peaceful parenting.

We sought peace and he is now very supportive.

Our response:

Wow! This is so enlightening! We are glad to hear that you and your little one got the support you need from your baby daddy.

Thank you for sharing your story. Alot of women will find this very helpful and insightful.

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