Do Not Talk Yourself Out Of Your Blessings

Samira had exciting news for Zaina. 

"Hey sis! I have some gist for you!" She exclaimed with excitement all over her face. Her eyes lit up, her smile was ear to ear as she got giggly and walked towards Zaina.

Zaina was eager to hear about it, "Sis… spill E'RRYTHANG! DON'T LEAVE OUT ANY DETAILS!"

"I met a guy and I like him," Samira responded with a smile.

Zaina: "Wow!! I love this gist already! Tell me more!"

"He is good to me, intelligent, visionary, mature and yes girrll! He wants to settle down! No games!"

"Awwhhh…. Girrll. I'm so happy for you! You've wanted this for so long and it's finally here."

"He said he loves my physique. BBW is his type and sis.. you know I'm serving curves." Samira responded with a confident smile and her self love was evident in her facial expression.

"Yaasss girrll…. I like him already!"

"And did I mention he is Hanging Low (colloquial term for big penis). So he is enough to feed this BBW!"

"My girrll got a 'big man'! My girrll got a 'big man'!" Zaina did a little dance as she sang.

"Haha! Sis, you're silly. Yes, he is good but.."

"But what?..." Zaina asked with a surprised look.

"I don't think I am the one for him. What if he doesn't understand why he wants marriage and kids? Besides, he is too slim bodied, we are the same height, he doesn't have muscles. I have always wanted a taller man who is well built. When I put on heels, I am taller than him. I think I'll just distance myself." Samira responded.

"Sis, don't do this. Look, alright… the final decision is yours but all I can say is.. Don't talk yourself out of your blessings. You are worthy of love and commitment from a good man. Character and responsibility define a man." Zaina said.

Samira is not the only person who believes she isn't worthy. How many people have you met in your life who constantly say,

"I'm not sure I'm able to do that job or I can get that promotion. I'll just let it go."?

Or those who say:

 "I don't know how to love."

" I am a complicated person."

" I am a loser."

" I am stupid."

Our words have the power to attract or repel whatever we ask for in life.

 When you speak, you send vibrations to your subconscious mind which sends a command to the universe. Therefore even when you come across a great opportunity, as long as you have settled on the negative you won't be able to identify it.

Gary is now 50 and lives alone. One thing about him is that he always says, "No woman wants what I want. I don't know how to love a woman." He's been saying this since he was 30. He has met good and responsible women but the relationships never got to full term. His words were so powerful that they dictated his life.

The mind sees what you command it to see. So speak power into it and watch your life transform.

Regardless of what you've been through, you deserve good things such as love, success, peace and personal growth. All you have to do is to choose to train your subconscious mind to spot them because they are in abundance.

How To Train Your Subconscious Mind

Affirmations and repetition 

Write down what you desire and recite them daily, morning and night. You can also record them and listen to them. Make this your routine. 

This is your way of instructing your subconscious mind to get to work and only be drawn to what you program into it.

In addition, your words also affect how people perceive, treat and address you.

Normalize speaking well of yourself. You are your own PR Manager. Nobody is going to promote you as well as you can because nobody knows you as much as you know yourself. 

So say good things about yourself and that is what people will say about you. Use positive words to refer to yourself such as:

• Beautiful
• Brilliant
• I am capable
• I can
• Intelligent
• Queen
• King
• Pretty
• Smart
• Understanding
• Patient
• Healthy

Your words have the ability to present you to your blessings. So speak well to yourself, about yourself and to your subconscious mind and watch your blessings meet you.