Friday 8 January 2021

6 Types Of Men A Strong Woman Will Meet In The Dating Pool



 For every girl who has learnt to take care of herself, secure her bag and own her stuff, the truth is... you're going to have to look out for yourself in your courtship years.

You will attract all sorts of partners and if you're past this stage you have probably met these types. 

Here is a list:

1. Mama's boy

This type of man has his mother as a strong influence.

Most likely the mum is outspoken, confident, his guide, cleans up after him and the lead provider.

If he's attracted to you, it's probably because you have his mother's traits. The final decision is yours. Just be prepared to step up more than he will.

2. Dictator

This type of man believes that his word is final. He feels no need to apologise. He would rather buy you gifts or ignore you until you cool down then probably buy your favorite dress or meal. 

He will always be the one to spend his money, decide when and where to meet you and feel threatened if you decide to spoil him with a gift or pay his car fuel bill as a sign of appreciation.

In my opinion, I call this toxic masculinity. If you have 'courtesy' in your list of preference then this man will probably drain your energy and throw you off balance.

But if you don't mind, well... go ahead and date him.

3. The Sparkle

This man is charming, confident, and very attractive. He has that fit and well chiseled body looking like a Greek god. He is health conscious hence he regularly works out. 

He is well travelled, stable career and the sex..... OH! My! Will definitely take you to cloud 9!

Oh yes, he has no problem cooking you breakfast or dinner.

It's easy to fall for him and start fantasizing your happy ending. Unfortunately, he doesn't like happily ever afters. He is just about the chase and moment. He will make it clear from the beginning that he won't promise a stable relationship but you'll be too blinded by his charm to adhere to his words. He'll use words like 'go with the flow' or 'let's be open-minded'.

His communication patterns are inconsistent and so is his availability.

Just guard your heart when with him.

4. Religious man

This is the tamed man. 

His life is literally in this order: Work-Home-Church

Nothing outside of it. If he dates you, it's for the purpose of marriage. No flings or just fun.

He will make it known from the beginning that marriage is his goal. This is good because you are assured of stability.

He will be attracted to you because of the sense of stability and focus you possess. 

But... he is not the type to be patient while you get to know each other and test compatibility before signing that paper. If you agree to date him, in his mind you are already his wife.

So let's say... you're not the extremely religious type. You're liberal, adventurous and like to give your body the good loving under the sheets. This man will probably try to get you to convert to his religion (which will be his greatest achievement that he can brag about), change your dress code and always expect you in church. 

If you can skip the compatibility test and go ahead with his goal, then he is the one for you.

5. Accomplished man

As a strong woman who has her own and is securing her bag, you are bound to attract this type of man: the successful achiever.

He has accumulated wealth, several sources of income and drives the latest cars. 

He will always take you to fancy restaurants, buy you flowers, expensive gifts from abroad and constantly ask you what he can bring you whenever he comes to see you.

He likes you. He cooks and has good taste for the finer things in life.

On the flip side, he has no plans for a long term relationship. Due to his ever busy working lifestyle, he will only see you when he is available not when you want to see him. You have to be available at his convenience.

All dates and communication times are on his schedule so you can't randomly call or text him in the afternoon.

6. The Ocean man

This man is calm, confident, visionary and responsible.

He respects you and wants to take his time to know you because he is in it for the long haul.

He calls and texts back, creates time and drives all the way to come see you. In addition, he sometimes allows you to lead because he respects your sense of independence.

If you have courtesy, respect, humor and peace in your list of preference, then this man will check them all.

You feel safe with him in every way: emotionally, physically and mentally because he is a provider and protector.

He feels no need to compete for your shine because he has found his own hence you can count on him for support.


The beauty of dating all these types of men is that you discover what makes you tick, what you need to heal from, how to make better choices and how relationships affect your character.

As you keep dating, you also draw yourself closer to YOU.

What type(s) have you dated and which one makes you tick? Share in the comments, we would love to know.

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