Social media was buzzing with all sorts of comments, tabloid links and vlogs.
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This is what Cardi had to say:
"It's hard not to talk to your best friend. You know what I'm saying? It's really hard not to talk to your best friend," she said. She described the couple as "two young motherfuckers that got married early," continuing, "That's just what we are. We're no different than y'all's dysfunctional ass relationships."
She added:
"I’m sorry, I’m not that type of bitch," she continued. "I’m sorry that I’m not y’all. I guess that’s what y'all want from me. Y'all want an apology from me for living my life. That’s what y’all want, y’all want me to apologize for living my life."
So Cardi, this is my note to you:
"Hey Cardi… I know what you're going through. It's the pain-remorse stage… a very vulnerable stage.
I've been there, done that and the truth is… they never change. The reason you left him the first time will be the same reason you will leave him again.
I understand that you're in love with him and you hope that this time he will be better. It's normal.
I'm not going to tell you to leave because you probably don't care and won't listen. Instead… I'll tell you to:
Keep going back to him until your heart can't handle it anymore.
Keep going back until your heart finally gets the strength to want better.
Keep going back until you finally find the courage to officially call it quits.
Keep going back until you are finally able to promise yourself better and not go back to what broke you.
Keep going back until you finally realize that your peace of mind is more important.
Keep going back until you finally learn to put a limit on your forgiveness.
Keep going back until you finally see that he doesn't have the same expectation of a relationship as you do.
Keep going back until you realize that there is no progress in a toxic relationship.
Keep going back until you finally realize that he just came back to you to feed his ego because he knows your worth and won't live right knowing that another man will see it and treat you like the queen you are."
I know your life is your choice and your relationship is none of my business but just know that a real best friend will never cheat on you repeatedly, publicly humiliate you and take your forgiveness, love and compassion for granted.
Respect will always be the bottom line.
From one sis to another… keep fighting for yourself. You deserve peace.
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