Honestly...
If you don't want to have kids, don't put yourself in a position to have one. The worst thing is to live with what you don't want. You will end up abusing that child and they'll be scarred for life.
If you've never envisioned yourself married, then don't do it. It's not fair to lead someone's son or daughter into a lifetime commitment that you never wanted. You'll mistreat them as you try to live your authentic self and fake self.
If you don't like sexy outfits, don't put them on. You'll feel uncomfortable.
If you just want a fling, say it! Don't lead someone's son/daughter into believing in the possibility of a nonexistent relationship.
If you have a different sexual orientation, be confident about it. It's 2019! LGBTQ is allowed! Character is more important than bedroom matters.
If s/he is not your type, say it from day 1. Don't waste their time.
If you are a strong personality, find someone that is equally strong or complements it. Don't look for someone who doesn't understand you then make them feel bad about it.
Don't take that course if you're not interested in it. Pursue a course that you like. Be true to your mind and heart.
If you can't afford it now, let it go. Don't strain. Being broke is temporary if you have a vision. Besides, money is not constant. It either flows in or out. Be true to your finances.
If they are toxic, you're not obliged to stick around. You have options. The human spirit can only thrive in peace and calm. Put it in that space.
If you have past or childhood trauma, don't deny, bury or escape it. Face it and seek healing. Human emotions eventually let themselves out in different forms through addictions, toxic behaviors, avoidance of responsibility and resentment.
Stay true to your entire being. You only get one shot at life, it is not a rehearsal. In the end, you are the only one living your TRUTH or LIE. (Click the link below to tweet)
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