How Birth Position Influences Career and Dating Choices

 

Every parent or guardian knows that children have different personalities. 

Regardless of who raises them, in the long run they will choose who they are.

Ever wondered why you are drawn to certain career options or have a specific pattern of dating partners?

Well… your birth position has a great influence over it and this is how:

First Born

They are self-driven and have learnt to lead themselves.

They are very responsible and can take good care of others and majority take on leadership positions.

Due to the semi-parental role they play at home, they tend to live a life of obligation.

They suppress their emotions for the purpose of fulfilling responsibility.

When it comes to relationships, they are compatible with partners who understand their leadership qualities and allow them to take the lead.

Owing to the fact that they have to be strong for other siblings and grow up fast, it isn't easy for them to open up emotionally and most of the time, vulnerability translates into 'weakness' according to them. 

This may affect their relationships especially if they are involved with those who are heavily emotional.

Middle child

They are highly emotional and intrinsic. Their life perception is personal.

They tend to be firm and confident in their decisions because they are caught between the first and last children and that translates into fighting to be heard.

When it comes to career choice, they choose what makes their hearts happy. They follow fulfillment beyond obligation.

When courting, they are drawn to partners who are as emotional as they are because they openly express their deepest feelings.

They forgive fast and love deeply.

Last born

The last child is normally the spoilt one. They are covered and protected by the older ones.

This makes them feel exonerated from responsibility.

However, they are genuine with their life choices regardless of what others think.

If they don't like something, that's it. No convincing them otherwise.

They're also honest with how they feel and are assertive.

In courtship, they blend well with people who are responsibility-oriented to offer them a sense of leadership.