Threesome Trouble

 Hi,

Thank you for this platform. So glad I can open up and not feel judged.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and things have been great.

However, a few weeks ago he asked if we could spice up our sex life by trying a threesome.

I didn't mind because I've never had one so I was all in.

He continued to say that he wanted it to consist of 2 men and a female while I would be the one to sit and watch.

What sort of spicing up is this? How am I supposed to enjoy this?

I love him though. What should I do?

Our response:

Hello... Thank you for reaching out. You are in the right safe space.

Communication is key. Talk to him and find out why he wants that then let him know how it makes you feel. If it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it.

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