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"Girrrrllllllll..... I got some gist for you!!"" Empress shouted as she approached her best friend, Tiara, at the restaurant.
"Spill the tea girl!" replied Tiara in excitement.
"Remember Jasiri... the guy I met at the seminar?"
"Of course I do. The guy who always got you giggling and took you bungee jumping." Tiara replied.
"Yes, him!! Oh my... That man turned into my Dzaddy last night!! OWH!!! Thinking about him just gives me chills!!!"
"Damn girl!!! Tell me more!! Is that why you're glowing???"
"It was AMAZING!!!! I felt so free!!! I like to be dominated in the bedroom and he delivered!! He also allowed me to be powerful. We were choking each other while I was riding him. Oh girrll!! And the way he whispered dirty to me while he nibbled my ear... aaarrgghhhh!!! He took me to paradise!!!! It was incredible!!!"
"Damn sis!! He really got you hooked!" Tiara exclaimed.
"Girrll..... I accept to be hooked." Empress responded with a dreamy smile.
Sex is a game of power.
It's about openly expressing and experiencing how you perceive power.
Jasiri and Empress's case is a clear example of top in the boardroom but bottom in the bedroom. You're lucky if your partner understands Sub-Dom and gives it wholeheartedly and enjoyably.
Sex is the only platform where partners openly express their animalistic desires. Depending on your sexual orientation, moaning and groaning is a sign of approval and acceptance. It turns your partner on to know you're enjoying intercourse with them.
Sex is an expression of deep emotions.
Intimacy, love, attraction, lust, desire are all expressed during intercourse. Emotional depth determines intercourse intensity.
However, some people use it to mask depression, loneliness, anger, uncertainty and pain. Unfortunately, it never works because the only way to handle these emotions is by talking to someone, journaling or therapy.
Sex is a stress reliever.
There is magic that happens to your mind and body when you have sex with someone you're attracted to!
It relieves physical and emotional tension hence activating brain cells to work effectively which means you'll be more attentive in class, and perform better at work.
Sex is good for your skin.
Oh yes... good sex makes you glow.
When your tensions are relieved, the body releases feel good hormones which reflect in your skin and make it glow.
Sex is a confidence booster.
Good sex with someone you're attracted to and understands your sexual needs boosts your self-confidence and self-esteem. It reflects in how you walk, talk, dress, perceive yourself and allows you to feel and dress sexy. Basically... you feel attractive.
Sex creates a safe space.
When sex with your partner allows you to openly express your needs, pleasure points and power perception, it creates a platform for both of you to be emotionally vulnerable which is good for your mental and emotional health.
So, you owe yourself great sex, make sure you give it and receive it because you are the biggest beneficiary! (Click the link below to tweet this.)
Sex is good for you! 😊
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"moaning and groaning is a sign of approval and acceptance. It turns your partner on to know you're enjoying intercourse with them". thts the best interpretation I have ever read actually ....its not just about the sounds made.. Kudos!!!
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