Human beings need to trust their instincts.
No matter how much your actions are clearly incongruent with your words, people completely refuse to see the truth.
When it comes to love, it's important to understand the other person's language of love lest you lose their desire for you. When a woman or man doesn't want to have sex with their partner that they claim to love... it's evident that his/her heart isn't in the relationship anymore. Just read the handwriting on the wall and save yourself the agony of feeling abandoned.
When your partner doesn't return an 'I love you' and keeps saying, 'You know I do too' or 'Me too' sweetheart, it's time to bounce.
When s/he no longer calls, texts or even laugh at your jokes, just give them space or find out what tickles them.
Ladies, ask for money! Yes I said it! I used to be that lass that was like, "I don't need it. I have my own. You need it more than I do." Until I realised that I was not giving him something to talk about. See, a man finds pride in discussing the trouble he went through to get a lady what she wanted. If you don't subject him to that trouble, he'll find someone who will. After this realization, I started asking for money without a care of where he'll get it.
Gentlemen, give her space when she asks for it. Stop being all over her with all the sweet words which she doesn't want to hear at that moment. See, a woman (especially in this 21st century) wants to chase you at some point. Sometimes act like you don't care and see how she comes running back to you. Reduce your number of I miss you's and increase your time in pursuing your vision. If you are always available then why should she miss you? Sometimes, don't call nor text. Give her a chance to initiate communication. A man's EVER availability to a woman means he's idle, lacks ambition, vision and dreams. Sociobiologically, female species are attracted to male species that work hard to gather resources for the family. In my generation's descendants' terms, "A diligent man turns her on."
Preoccupy yourself with something useful and at the end of the day, tell her about it. You'll see how many compliments you'll receive.
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